Curriculum:
Premarital Mastery &
Premarital Essentials
Please complete the homework assignments indicated prior to each session.
For workbook chapters, share and discuss your answers to the workbook questions with one another prior to the session, noting key differences, discoveries, and areas of concern.
Session 1: Growth and Strength Areas
Discover where your relationship excels, and where some work may be needed.
Homework:
Complete P/E Assessment at least 24 hrs before
Session 2: Influence of Family of Origin
Explore how you became the person you are, and how your family may have shaped your values, beliefs, and expectations about relationships and married life.
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapters 1 and 2
Session 3: Mastering Communication
Communication is more than just talking. Learn new ways of communicating that reduce conflict and increase empathy and understanding.
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapter 3;
Take Love Language Quiz
Session 4: Effective Conflict Resolution
Learn strategies for minimizing conflict, understanding your conflict style, and maintaining grace in the face of disagreement.
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapter 4;
Take Apology Language Quiz
Session 5: Harmonizing Financial Strategies
Finances is a major source of conflict in marriage. Align your money attitudes, plans, and goals.
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapter 5
Session 6: Managing Marriage Expectations
Understand the assumptions you each hold for life together, identify the showstoppers for your relationship, and discuss a variety of “what ifs.”
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapter 6
Session 7: Relationship Roles / Sex & Intimacy
Plan how responsibilities will be allocated in a fair and constructive way. Explore how to enhance and maintain both sexuality and intimacy.
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapters 7 and 8
Session 8: Parenting Expectations
Compare your assumptions and expectations for how you’ll approach parenting across a range of subject areas.
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapter 9
Session 9: Blended Families (optional paid add-on session)
For couples marrying with stepchildren
Work through the complexities of stepchildren and blending families from multiple perspectives.
Homework:
The Journey from Me to We Chapter 10