FAQ

Our Premarital Counseling is an educational and skills-based program designed to prepare couples for a strong, lifelong marriage. We are marriage educators, not therapists, and as such we are focused exclusively on the future of your relationship. We use assessments, guided exercises, workbook reflections, and open conversations to help you identify strengths, uncover potential challenges, and build strategies for marriage success. Every session is co-led by Estrella and Robert in a relaxed couple-to-couple format that helps couples feel comfortable and supported as they learn together.

Therapy is intended for couples dealing with serious challenges such as mental health issues, abuse, addiction, or facing a relationship crisis, and it must be led by licensed mental health professionals. Our Premarital Counseling and Relationship Coaching are not therapy—they’re an educational process that equips you with tools for communication, conflict resolution, and long-term planning. In short: therapy heals the past, our programs prepare you for the future.

Like therapy, confidentiality and discretion are absolute.

Couples who participate in premarital education are shown to be 30% less likely to divorce. But the reason to consider Premarital Counseling goes beyond avoiding divorce; it also makes marriage more fulfilling and enjoyable. Our program provides practical tools to handle conflict constructively, strengthen intimacy, and align on future goals. It also helps couples feel more confident entering marriage and, if needed, makes them more likely to seek support early. In rare cases, the program can uncover fundamental differences, allowing couples to make informed choices before committing.

- Family background and values
- The “big five” conflict areas: money, intimacy, spirituality, parenting, and in-laws
- Communication and conflict resolution skills
- Roles and responsibilities in marriage
- Creating a shared vision for your future

Our programs blend a relationship assessment, workbook explorations, interactive exercises, and guided conversations. You’ll discover strengths, uncover blind spots, and practice new skills. Because both Estrella and Robert are present for all sessions, we offer a unique couple-to-couple approach that creates balance and expands insight.

No. While many clients come to us engaged, the relationship skills coaching aspect of what we do is equally valuable for couples who are seriously dating (pre-engaged) and want to deeply explore their relationship, or recently married couples who want to strengthen their foundation.

No. Our programs are not about “fixing” issues—they’re about equipping couples with skills and insights proactively. Many couples who come to us already feeling strong are surprised by how much they learn about each other and how much closer they become through the process.

None of our programs are faith-based, but we do explore spirituality if it’s important to you as a couple. These conversations help partners understand one another’s beliefs and plan constructively for any differences that exist.

All of our services are offered online via Zoom,‍ ‍and for couples in the Central Texas area, we offer in person sessions in Austin.

No matter how we meet, couples receive the same supportive, high-quality experience.

If you’re local to Austin, in-person sessions often provide fewer distractions and a more personal feel. However, our Zoom sessions are equally effective, and many couples benefit from the virtual format.

The sooner, the better. Starting early lets you apply new insights right away, even before the wedding. That said, it’s never too late—the program is equally valuable for couples close to their wedding date or already married.

Most couples complete the program in 8 weekly, 1-hour sessions. Depending on your needs and schedule, we offer flexible formats ranging from 4 to 12 sessions. Texas engaged couples completing at least 8 sessions receive a Twogether in Texas certificate, which provides a $60 discount on the marriage license and waives the 72-hour waiting period.

Yes. Texas engaged couples completing at least 8 sessions earn a Twogether in Texas certificate, which saves $60 on a Texas marriage license and eliminates the 72-hour waiting period.

Yes. If your wedding is approaching quickly, we can adjust the schedule or use our condensed 4-session program. While the full 8-session program is ideal, a shorter course still provides valuable tools and insights.

Yes. Sessions are designed for couples to participate together, so both partners benefit equally and can practice skills in real time.

Pricing includes both coaches in every session, a relationship assessment, and all materials. Payment is made securely online. See our Pricing page for details.

No. Because our programs are proactive educational services, not therapy, health insurance does not apply.

The first step is a free conversation with Estrella and Robert, either in-person or online. This relaxed session lets you meet us, ask questions, and see if the program is a good fit. If you choose to continue, we’ll guide you through handling paperwork and payment. Once that’s done, you’ll use our convenient self-scheduling system to book your sessions at a time convenient for you. This system also allows easy rescheduling of appointments with 24-hour notice.