Please complete the homework assignments indicated prior to each session. For workbook chapters, share and discuss your answers to the workbook questions with one another prior to the session, noting key differences, discoveries, and areas of concern.

Session 1: Growth and Strength Areas

Discover where your relationship excels, and where some work may be needed.

Homework: Complete Prepare/Enrich Assessment at least 24 hours before

Session 2: Influence of Family of Origin

Explore how you became the person you are, and how your family may have shaped your values, beliefs, and expectations about relationships and married life.

Homework: For Better and For Ever Chapter 2 and Chapter 5 (EXPRESS: Chapter 2)

Session 3: Communication

Communication is more than just talking. Learn new ways of communicating that reduce conflict and increase empathy and understanding.

Homework: For Better and For Ever Chapter 8; Take Love Language Quiz (EXPRESS: Chapter 3)

Session 4: Conflict Resolution

Learn strategies for minimizing conflict and overcoming roadblocks.

Homework: For Better and For Ever Chapter 9; Take Apology Language Quiz (EXPRESS: Chapter 4)

Session 5: Financial Management

Finances is a major source of conflict in marriage. Align your money attitudes, plans, and goals.

Homework: For Better and For Ever Chapter 7

Session 6: Marriage Expectations

Identify the showstoppers for your relationship, discuss a variety of “what ifs,” and explore expectations for intimacy and sex.

Homework: For Better and For Ever Chapter 10

Session 7: Parenting Style

Compare your assumptions and expectations for how you’ll approach parenting across a range of subject areas.

Homework: For Better and For Ever Chapter 12; (Chapter 11 if relevant)

Session 8: Roles & Responsibilities

Figure out who will be responsible for what, in a fair and constructive way.

Homework: For Better and For Ever Chapter 13; Chore List exercise